I’m a Co-Parenting Failure

And I’ve realized I’m okay with that.

Photo by Dingzeyu Li, Unsplash

When you “divorce with kids” you instantly become co-parents. As though the adulterer you now discover you were married to is someone you actually want to parent with and see for the rest of your children’s lives. Yes I loved him and married him and planned on being with him forever, but when we had kids I didn’t think I had to stop and wonder, hmmm if he